Healthy boundaries facilitate empowerment rather than rescuing. One supports authentic power, the other perpetuates victim consciousness. It is perfectly appropriate and beautiful to help one another, in fact, we love you for your tender hearts and caring nature! We just urge you to make sure it is for the greatest good of all involved.
A good rule of thumb is to make sure that you never become more invested in another’s wellness than they are in their own, and to never become more invested in another’s wellness than you are in your own. Support and encouragement uplift, while rescuing or doing for others, what they can very well do for themselves, reinforces the illusion of their powerlessness.
Isn’t it time to not only shine, but to also encourage others to shine in their divine capability, as well? Then you will be in a beautiful spiral of upliftment, a dance of support and empowerment, that allows everyone involved to thrive. ~Archangel Gabriel
