For enlightening human beings, how you interact with your family members and significant others can be the most challenging area to transform.  This is because it is the area where your conditioning is greatest, and old habits can be well established, running automatically without your conscious awareness.

So how do you address this? Just like with any other area you wish to evolve, with intention, your true desire to change, and greater awareness. The key is to step out of automatic responses, into more conscious interaction. Try to be more aware. If you catch yourself reacting unconsciously, stop and feel into the situation. Is this an old pattern that doesn’t even match who you are anymore? How would you like to approach this now, based on your latest level of attainment?

If you have already reacted in an old way that doesn’t match how you would like to approach things now, simply address it in that moment. Apologize and readjust. This is a powerful act of shifting the energy.

Consciously practice empathy for your loved ones. Try to look at them with new eyes and feel into their perspective. Take an observant role. What are they afraid of? What are they struggling with? What do they need to feel safe and loved? What can you do to break the old pattern of interaction?

God said:

Beloved, sometimes days on Earth seem to be so painstaking, and you just don’t quite know how to get around this.

In life and in all novels, what cannot happen to you in great dismay on any day in the fickle world?

Thanks to your lucky stars, you don’t always miss out on great good days on Earth either, do you?

A gentle reminder; there is joy in just existing.  Regardless of what you are doing, where you are or who you are with, the simple act of living is a wonderful experience!  Allow yourself to be enveloped in The Universe’s Unconditional Love and know you are respected and admired beyond your wildest imagination.  You have chosen an interesting time to be alive and that, alone, deserves the highest praise. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2018/09/24/a-simple-act-2/

Every single energetic release, shift, or integration you go through allows new opportunities to become available to you that match your new lighter energetic state.  It is a process of internal expansion which is then reflected to you by external expansion. It is such an incredibly exciting process to behold because it is filled with ever evolving potentials and possibilities in response to you embodying more and more of the vastness of your soul. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

http://trinityesoterics.com/2018/09/24/daily-message-monday-september-24-2018/

God said:

Beloved, notice that I, God, pretty much sum life up from the portals of life in the world. You don’t have to sum up life. You don’t have to say the final word, even if you want to. What is the gain you must come by according to your version of life? Is it really necessary that you sum up life? Being uncertain can be fine and dandy, and why not? Be uncertain then. It's okay. You don't have to pin the tail on the donkey.

All in good time is My good advice. Happy is as happy does. You don’t have to know everything whatsoever. Be unsure. May you be happy just the same.

It is finally time to put to rest the voices that have been telling you that you are less than perfect.  Those memories, looping tapes and feelings are not yours, dearest!  They belong to another time, another place or another person who was in denial about their own issues and chose to give them to you.  Does that make sense?  The Universe is always on-hand to help you see what is truly yours and that which was given to you when you felt it was the only way to be loved on your Earth plane.  It may take some work, however, it can be done.  You have the knowledge, wisdom and power to make it so! (Smiling) The last determining factor is how willing you are to finally release it to be transformed to light and love.  The choice has always, always been yours! ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2018/09/23/putting-it-to-rest/