Have you noticed how your love relationships enjoy such a glorious time of wonder and connection in the beginning, and over time start to feel less and less magical? Have you wondered why that happens?

The reason for that is because you enter the relationship from a space of openness and appreciation but don't consciously keep up that positive focus, and slowly start to shift from gratitude, unconditional love, and acceptance for each other into the lack of appreciation for them that you call taking for granted.

Once you fall into taking each other for granted and worse, negative focus, you start to judge the other, which creates separation. From the space of judgment and separation, it is easy to feel resentful and fall into conditional love, which further erodes the love and connection you once had. Further, because you are so focused on the failings of the other, you have stepped of being responsible for self, and the knowing that the only thing that you do have control over is yourself.

Dear Ones, this is a very common thing, and something you are ready to evolve beyond. If your relationship has gone down this road, you can start to turn it around. Consciously look for the traits you truly love about your partner and voice your appreciation for them. Appreciation always shifts the energy into acceptance. Acceptance is the core of unconditional love.

God said:

The theme of drama in the world is utterly dramatic and long-lasting in its effect. Drama makes you sit up twice.

The Drama of Life is an essential theme to step away from. Run from drama like the plague. Enter Life and enjoy Life for itself and not for its spotlight. Live your Life. Live your Life simply and not congregate around the drama or glamour or timbre or tremor of it.

Some people claim solitude is what is necessary to move fully forward into their truth and authenticity. Others claim that connection is what the goal is. We would say depending on what your individual needs are at any given point on your spiritual path, both are true.

Many people, when they first start their awakening process, feel a deep need to withdraw. This allows them the time to connect within, align with Source, and to create a safe space for healing and transformation to occur. Many people well on their spiritual journey frequently need to move into solitude to recharge their batteries, to integrate energies, and to nurture whatever their specific needs are at that time. A great many empaths withdraw to learn how to gain mastery with energetics so that connection without discomfort can become possible.

For many, once a period of solitude, growth, and healing have occurred, there is an urge to step back out into the world and into relationship with others that is deeper and more profound than ever before. They have come to a place of acceptance and unconditional love from their sabbatical and wish to start to practice that with others. They are ready to take connection to the next level. And many will find a combination of solitude and connection that works for them to create balance in their lives.

During this time of ‘rest before recommence’, it is very important to release any judgement you may have about yourself and/or others.  You may be saying to yourself, “…but I should be doing ____” or “I have to do _____!”  Actually, you do not! (Smiling) One of the most challenging things for you, as a human, to do is allow yourself the time for self-care.  In your world of ‘doing’, just being is judged as lazy.  Give yourself the gift of resting and know that it is fully supported and encouraged by The Universe.  You are worthy and deserving of it. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2017/11/17/encouragement-to-rest/

Breathe deeply.  The inactivity around you is signaling a deep shift coming.  You can hear it…like a train’s whistle in the night.  You sit and contemplate how far away it is, when it will arrive and what it will bring.  Now, in the quiet, it is time to think upon what you choose to release, manifest, change or discard from your existence.  Please do not view this task as daunting…see it as a freeing of your soul for the new and brilliant things on their way to you. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2017/11/16/what-is-coming/