If someone using harsh words toward you, The Universe is asking that you step back, take a deep breath and think about what was just said.  Did your energy play a part or is the person experiencing something you are unaware of?  Most of the time, those who use hurtful words are expressing disappointment, anger, hurt or internal emotional distress.  It has absolutely nothing to do with you!  When you use this tool, you will begin to see what is really going on in the world around you.  Do not take it personally, my child, just send Unconditional Love.  That is what they need the most. ~ Creator

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We would like to offer you an analogy that will help you understand the difference between creating within what you already know vs expanding into manifesting from the vaster realm of potential and possibility that are not yet known to you.

Creating within the field of what you already know is much like doing all of your shopping from your corner store. While it offers a service to you, there is a limited selection of options. You can get by with what is at the corner store, if you are willing to settle for what is in stock there.

Creating through the broader realm of potentiality is like deciding to shop on the internet. By doing so you have opened yourself up to a much wider selection of options, many of which you may not have even realized existed! You expand into a far vaster field that can serve you and your specific needs, effortlessly exploring options until you discover what is the best match for you. Searching with your broad intention and being willing to explore what else is possible is what opens you to allowing the unknown matches to show up.

Please understand both the corner store and online shopping are options that seek to meet your needs, and allows others to be of service to you. Both have purpose in your lives. Our point is exploring the unknown does not have to be a scary venture, but rather a pleasurable one you can embrace, discovering options you never realized existed, and what can best support your unique needs and self expression. It is a skill you already have. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

The Universe knows that you have been working very hard and your growth and learning.  One of the things you are being asked to perfect is taking responsibility for your own thoughts and actions.  Yes, there are times when you will be presented with a challenging situation and may respond the old way.  But the goal is to put at end to projecting.  The act of projection uses ‘you statements’.

“You made me feel ____”,

“I did this because you ____”,

“This wouldn’t be happening if you ___”

If you have done it, own it!  If you are having overwhelming feelings, feel them.  If you feel another has hurt you, take a step back and see what part you have played in the scenario.  My dearest child, it is time to start owning what you create.  Once you have begun, the easier it will become! ~ Creator

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Dear Ones, your bodies can give you wonderful feedback when it comes to your creations. Think of something you’d like to experience. As you think about it, check in with your body. Do you feel tension in your body, particularly in your abdominal area? If you do, it is letting you know you have some kind of resistance or belief system that is not in alignment with the creation of your desire from the energetic space you are in.

Consider what that might be. Ask your inner tender human self what it might be afraid of and why it thinks that dream is unattainable. Reassure it and allow any resistant energy to be acknowledged and released. If all the reasons why you think it can’t happen persist, realize you are trying to create from the energy of separation and the realm of limitation, which cannot bring in new potentials to you.

Consciously intend to shift into the energies of Source. Find an alignment that makes you feel like you are part of the greater whole and the universe that contains all that is. Now check in with your body. From that space of connection, you will feel more flow and comfort in your body and heart expansion.

This is the space you want to manifest from, for it contains all the possibilities and potentials that exist for you. You have placed yourself in a space of acceptance to willingly receive from the greater whole, which is where the magic begins. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young