Fears have their basis in one experience and you are the one that perpetuates them into an imagined reality. Getting caught up if the ‘what ifs’ create an endless loop of stagnation that hinders your growth. If you allow yourself to release this, step out of your comfort zone and reach into a new reality you will find most of your fears are not valid at all. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2016/08/07/a-valid-fear/

God said:

Life is a breeze. However, you fantasize Life as arduous. You set up parameters for Life and tell Life that it can go so far and no farther. You put fences up and assault Life for being what it is when you don't like Life's stepping outside the borders you like to decide. You may think that Life hassles you. You are the forbidder. You would like to rule Life, make Life a prisoner of your likes and dislikes. You would like to order Life around and tell it what it may or may not do.

Life is not unforgiving. You do not like Life to do its thing. You think Life is out of bounds. You would like to restrict Life. There are dances you favor, and dances you don't. If you had your say, Life would not be Life. You think you would improve it.

You may assert that Life has no business being Life. You may feel that Life has no right to pick you up and ask you to dance and take you off your feet. You want Life to dance to your tune. You want to dance the dances of your choice. You want Life to be a restaurant where you make up the menu according to your desires and even your whims at a given moment.

You fight Life. You resist. You want to prevent Life. You don't mind birth, yet you refuse death. You would outlaw death, as you arm yourself with righteousness.

Wake up. In Life or in the misnomer named death, you are in My arms. Your mind and heart are fraught with ideas of danger. You tie yourself up in knots and blame Life for imposing on you, yet you forget that I am with you.

Sometimes, the only thing you can do is listen.  If someone is willing to open up to you about pain in their lives, it is not necessary to know exactly what is going on…..they may not be ready/willing to speak of it directly and that is their choice.  The best thing to do is hold space for them without judgement and without ‘digging for dirt’ or details.  This, my child, is the birth of a compassionate heart. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2016/08/06/the-compassionate-heart/