In order to move into better feeling interactions with others, we would suggest that if you are asked to do something, you take a moment to feel into that activity to see how you really feel about it, and if it is something you truly wish to do.

If it is, give your agreement, and you will enter into that activity with open-heartedness and flow.  If you check in with yourself and you feel it is not something you wish to do, you can gently decline, knowing that it is far better to give a mindful no than it is to do something resentfully.

Where it starts to affect your relationships is when you say yes to something you really do not wish to do. This approach frequently ends up creating resentment towards others. Resentment is an emotion that is filled with resistance, which will always create discomfort and separation. You cannot resent and love another at the same time.

Dear Ones, if you say yes to something that you do not wish to do, please understand that is a choice. It is a choice that you have made, not something that someone made you do. You are always a sovereign being, and in charge of your own decisions.

When you assume responsibility for giving a yes when you really meant no, you become more aware of your choices and resulting emotions. It allows you to let other people off the hook for how you feel. This also creates an opportunity to make different choices next time, which will only improve your relationships in the long run.

Your healing cannot begin (or continue) unless you make the conscious choice to do so.  Rather than looking to others for answers, look within with the support and guidance from those around you.  As always, my love, the choice and decisions are yours. ~ Creator

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God said:

Dreams do come true. Many of your own dreams have come true. Dreams exist. Any dream can come true. You are meant to have dreams.

Too often dreams in the world have been stultified. The world has pushed dreams down, mocked them even, and warned you not to dream. What folly!

Also the idea arises that all your dreams must come true! Who says so?

My dear ones, there is much value in having the dreams themselves. Perhaps the true purpose of your dreams is to have the dreams. It is not obligatory that all your dreams come true. It is joyous when dreams come true, yet dreams, just like you, are free to exist as they do for just as long as they do. Dream the dreams. Go for them. Do your part. And when a dream does not come true, well, then, be glad you dreamed the dream.

And it has also happened that some dreams come true do not deliver all that you thought they would. Somehow your lovely dream backfired. The dream came true, and perhaps, you were not quite ready for it. Who knows? What is just is. Don't judge your dreams for not coming true. You had a dream.

Your feet trod on Earth. In one way, We can say that there are no free rides. On the other hand, We can say that all of Life is a free ride. You are free to make your dreams come true so far as you are able. You could dream of owning a company that will do great things. You are blessed to start this company, and it succeeds, or it doesn’t succeed, or it succeeds and you find that living the dream wasn’t as you had thought it would be.