God said:
There are loved ones you care about who drive you up the wall, is this not so? If you didn’t care deeply and hold a vested interest, it’s possible they wouldn't drive you up the wall. You may see their repetitive behavior as self-destructive, and yet you have heard Me say to keep your hands off. You don’t know if you are capable of being silent.
Let Us say that your husband is a master procrastinator. To almost everything you may say or request, his refrain seems to be:
"Not now," or, "Later." And later is later and later.
It is as if your husband is a collector of undone deeds. You are not talking about his mowing the yard. He could be out of work, and you may be concerned about his getting off the couch and looking for work. You are so worried.
You understand what I mean when I say to let him be. You know that reminding him that time is wasting doesn't help either you or him. That's just it – nothing seems to help.
You are not someone who can just sit on your hands. You can’t possibly smile and pretend that everything is all right. Has your husband given up? Is he wasting his life? Is he possibly ill? You have worry on top of worry.
The fact, so far as you can see, is that his joy in life lies lounging on the couch, watching TV and letting life slide.
His reactions are hard for you to take. Somehow, you and your husband have become opponents.