Many of you are experiencing a space of not knowing. Not knowing what is next for you, which direction to go in, or even who you are or what brings you joy. While we understand this can be disconcerting, this is actually a very good thing and proof positive of the work you have done.

You know you have been releasing and integrating, and for many of you this has created a sensation of spaciousness within you. This is because you are no longer holding old belief systems, expired soul contracts, or the energy of old wounds. These have held much density and in many ways have been how you have identified yourselves. So much of your old lives have been stripped away, and this will serve you well moving forward.

The reason why we say this is because you have lost all your old identifiers you will now be able to move forward without any attachment to outcome. When you know nothing you become naturally curious, open to see what is next without any constraints or preconceived notions. It is from that place that you start to navigate one now moment at a time, based on what matches the new you. It becomes easier to embrace surrender and flow and to see where the unfoldment takes you. It allows you to receive higher outcomes than you ever could have experienced before due to the conditioned restraints of who you thought you were and how you thought things should be.

Asking, cajoling, demanding or manipulating others to change who they are is the ego wanting complete control.  This self-destructive pattern may play out many times before a step is taken away from denial and into truth.  Whether you are participating in the cycle of witnessing it from afar, know that each of you has the power to change!  Moving toward the light is the first step to leaving toxicity behind.  You have some very important work to do and The Universe is calling, will you choose to answer? ~ Creator

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Allowing your own essence and wisdom to lead the way is the ultimate expression of trust, both in yourself and in the universe’s willingness to respond in kind. That is all that is required moving forward into the energies of a new year and a new decade to shift into living your highest, most satisfying life expression. The magic you have been seeking comes from the acceptance of your own beingness and the unfoldment that can begin from there. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

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Dearest child; boundaries are going to be a critical part of your new existence. If you participate in an experience/situation that feels uncomfortable from the beginning, it may always be that way. Yes, you are able to change your energy but others are responsible for themselves. You are in the process of creating a new reality/world for yourself. Listen to and follow your heart…do what is best for you. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2019/12/26/do-what-is-best/

The holiday season can be stressful for many of you.  Due to its hectic nature and demands (many of them self imposed) it is common for people to get out of balance.  That, combined with being around family members who may still be living by old conditioning and belief systems that do not match who you are and whose presence may very quickly bring to the surface unresolved hurts, is a recipe for getting triggered and reactive. Most enlightening human beings later feel great remorse for having that response and can be quite hard on themselves, indeed.

If you did get triggered during the holidays, the first thing to do is to simply forgive yourself. Understand this is a part of you that is seeking your love and compassion. What does that part of you need from you? Take the time to sit with it, to love it, to reassure it, to give it compassion and a safe space to be heard. The last thing that part of you needs is for you to be berating yourself. It needs your love and guidance, and that is well within your capability to give to yourself.

Taking the time to tend to yourself first, with love and compassion, is the first step to being able to keep your balance during future holidays. Next, examine how you might have allowed yourself to get out of balance. Did you take on more than you should have?  Did you over give and not allow yourself to receive assistance? What did you take on that really wasn’t necessary? How could you have improved your self care? Now is the ideal time to reexamine how you handle holidays and to move them into a better balance.