What does it take to become a whole person?  The Universe has an infinite number of answers and each of them depends on what you feel you are, what you need and who you want to become.  In your current society, you have been taught that becoming whole means reaching out to another to receive what you feel is missing.  In fact, it is the exact opposite.

My dearest child, rather than looking outside yourself, you must go within.  Those complexities are known only to you!  Asking others to fill something for you is like being a contestant on a game show.  They will always be venturing a guess.  Yes, they may get it right on occasion but, they will never have all the answers.  Giving to yourself may be perceived as selfish when, in fact, it is the greatest act of self-care in which you will ever indulge.  Working on and moving toward becoming whole is your responsibility and a gift that is one of the most important things you will ever accomplish. ~ Creator

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If a child makes a mistake because they didn’t know any better, you are quick to forgive. You explain there are different options and why they might want to make a different choice in the future. You understand there was innocence under the choice and see it as an opportunity for growth and expansion.

When did you lose that compassion and understanding for yourself? When did you lose that compassion and understanding for others? Can you lovingly redirect yourself without the need for shaming or berating yourself? Can you offer that same grace to others?

It is highly unlikely you will make perfect choices 100% of the time just because you have reached adulthood. You are still growing and evolving and will continue to until the end of your days. You will learn your preferences by trying many things and discovering through experience what best matches you and your truth.

Your growth involves redirecting again and again, evolving one empowered choice at a time. You are exploring your mastery, which will involve aspects of what it is and what it isn’t. This is all part of being in the realm of experience, and to be expected as part of your evolution. Be kind and gentle with yourselves and others through all of this, Dear Ones, for shame and blame are energies that cannot support anyone in the discovery of their highest expression of self. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

Can The Universe let you in on a little secret?  You are doing a great job! (Smiling) There have been many changes, challenging energies and internal muck to wade through…and you have done it with strength, fortitude and grace.  If you do just one thing today, give yourself some credit and know it is okay to feel a little more than proud of what you have accomplished.  Yes, there is more in the future, but now you know you can handle whatever comes your way. ~ Creator

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Dear Ones, so many of you are so hard on yourselves if you forget to practice what you know or behave in a way that you feel is not spiritual. We would see your slips as successes from our perspective.

The fact that you wish to show up as your highest version of self is a wonderful intention, which indicates growth and expansion. The fact that you catch yourself when you are not in an alignment you prefer rather than simply staying there is great progress, for it indicates you have evolved beyond being comfortable in those old energies.

Every single time you catch yourself and choose again it is a vibrational leap that not only serves you but the planet, as well. Every time you redirect back to your own truth it is a powerful declaration of self and a clear demonstration of your new preferences. You are in the process of energetically anchoring new habits that better match who you are and where you wish to go.

So rather than beating yourselves up for your perceived failures, please know the fact that you have developed awareness and now prefer something different is a wonderful success. It is defining yourself again and again in ever higher vibrating ways. That is exactly what is driving the shift on your planet and is a truly a glorious thing to behold. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

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