As you continue to evolve, a theme that is coming up is moving beyond co-dependency into healthy connection. You may know that your interactions with those closest to you hold patterns that are no longer desired but don’t quite know how to shift them. This can feel daunting because many of these patterns have been well entrenched since childhood. Along with this, unconditional love can sometimes be misunderstood to mean allowing any kind of behaviour to continue in order to be loving.

Dear Ones, we have some simple rules of thumb to help you navigate the waters of creating healthier connections with appropriate boundaries. The first is, never become more invested in another person’s wellness than they are in their own. The second is, never become more invested in another person’s wellness than you are in your own.

You are seeking connection points that honour and empower everyone involved. There is not one solid unmovable line in the sand. There may be times where you need to step forward if someone is losing their balance to help them right themselves. The idea is that you always offer your support with an eye towards what will empower them to be able to stand on their own again.

Now that most of the heavy lifting of this shift has passed, it is time to go within to see what you have acquired.  It does not have to be a marathon session; just a quick peek to see what is new.  As you acquaint yourself with these new skills, give them a little try.  If things were a bit rough, they may smooth out.  If things appeared chaotic, that may mellow a bit.  Release any worry you may have about adapting to them, all The Universe gives you is always in your highest and best for the highest and best. ~ Creator

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Most of you have felt the intensity of the last several months as you are releasing and healing the last vestiges of the first phase of your incarnation. Many of you are in the pregnant pause, the phase where you are given space to gain clarity on who you are today based on all the shifting, purging, and integrating you have done. You are getting to know yourselves again in a new, unencumbered way.

Now that you are not going to be driven by past conditioning, old soul contracts, karmic debts or agreements, or service contracts that are now complete, what is possible? What would you like to experience? What have you always wanted to do but didn’t due to other people’s needs or opinions?

What can you do now that you aren’t driven by fear? What path does your heart choose? What gifts are opening to you based on your latest level of attainment? What brings you joy? What have you always wanted to try or experience? If you had a chance to redo your entire life expression, what would you do differently based on the wisdom you now have?

You are, in effect, being given a chance for what you would call a do-over, to experience everything that is possible without the restraints of societal conditioning or your own self imposed limitations. What a glorious time, indeed! ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

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This shift is giving you some very important tools to work with.  Now that they are in place, it is time to re-think, re-assess and release.  Do not allow yourself to be distracted by overthinking.  Know it is there and begin! (Smiling) This is something you have been waiting for, it is here…time to allow! ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2019/09/02/time-to-allow/

When your focus is on abundance you hope will come one day, you are attempting to create from a space of lack and uncertainty. When your focus is gratitude for the blessings you already have and what empowered choice you can make in each now moment, you are creating from a space of abundance, sovereignty, and presence. It is the latter approach that has the ability to ground you into the experience of your own divine capability. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

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