All great changes happen a little bit at a time. If you find an area of your life very out of balance, (common examples are the areas of self love, giving/receiving, relationship dynamics, and appropriate boundaries, or any other area where you consistently give your power away), it is very stressful, daunting, and often unrealistic to expect yourself to suddenly swing into a perfectly healthy expression of that particular area. It took a while to get that out of balance so it will likely be too much to expect yourself to right it all in one swoop.

But what you can do, is start to integrate healthier, conscious choices, bit by bit, to move yourself towards your goal. This will help you to gradually become more comfortable with moving into and assimilating those energies, and before you know it you will have created healthier habits that accumulate into profound and empowering healing and change that are so much more in line with what you desire and deserve.

Evolution is a process, Dear Ones, and one that can be done bit by bit to ensure your comfort and success. By taking it a little at a time you will give yourself practice and experience which will, in turn, create positive momentum. What small changes can you start to incorporate into your life on a consistent basis that would honour your tender soul and your highest intentions? ~Archangel Gabriel

http://trinityesoterics.com/2017/02/12/daily-message-sunday-february-12-2017/

Embrace yourself without reservation, conditions or boundaries. Embrace others with love, knowing that you can give them what you give yourself. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2017/02/12/embracing/

God said:

In every breath, you perpetuate yourself on Earth.

You are a willing partner in your Life. Your Life is your Life, and Your Life is yours to do with. Certainly, there are factors out of your present control, where you were born, to whom, and, yet, as farfetched as it may seem, you contributed to your placement in life.

Your life was not simply foisted on you, nor were your choices limited to you. You had preferences, the reasons for which you are unable to identify now. Nevertheless, you positioned yourself. You can’t figure this all out now, nor is there a reason to.

We can say that you speak in a different language now than in the language you spoke then. We can say you speak with words now and perhaps more in shapes and colors then. More with abstract then whereas you long to identify other factors now.

Consider that you gave yourself an assignment, and now you fulfill it. Accept your assignment with eagerness. Give yourself a good go at it. You might well not now choose the Life you chose – or you may – yet, in any case, you did not choose it randomly.

Certainly, some puzzles seem more complex than others, yet you have privilege in working the puzzle that is before you. Go at it with the idea that you will find your way, and have every advantage in the puzzle that is before you. This puzzle is called Life. This does not mean that you whip your puzzle into submission. You don't whip it into shape. You look at it in new ways.

How often have you said: "If only I had known then what I know now…"