Was, not was. Is, is not. These words make no difference and have no bearing on your existence as an ever-changing being of light. Breathe in your now! ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2017/01/15/breathe-in/

God said:

Know your own significance. You are valuable. You are entitled.

You don't have to tiptoe around yourself. Have no worries about disturbing world beliefs for others. Who has the right to take away even 1/8th inch of what is meaningful to you? You are the decider of what is worthwhile to you. No one is to repress what is vital to you.

Next week, you may find yourself drawn to something else. Who says you must stay with something all your life? If you are drawn to something all your life, you are drawn to it. If something new pulls you, then something new pulls you. Your heart is your enabler. No one has the right to decide your path or paths for you. Only you. You are the one who leads your life.

You may not always feel self-propelling. Sometimes, Life itself seems to pick you up, toss you up in the air, and where you land – there you are -- perhaps a great surprise to you!

One way or another, your destiny will find you. Or it will not. If not, be your own self-mover. Do hand-stands if you have to find your way in the mist.

Your life belongs to you, and your life belongs to Me. The long and the short of it -- in the final analysis of your life – I am your Destiny. You will knowingly wind up with Me. We are pinned together. Our connection is secure. There is never a time Our connection is not. From a human point of view, you may resist knowing Our Connection, yet this is to no avail. We are Forever One.

Are you done?
It is enough?
Are you ready to stop?
Are you ready to start?!
 
It is time to be done beating up on yourself.
It is time to start viewing yourself as good enough.
It is time to stop belittling who you are.
It is time to start embracing the beauty, intelligence, joy and love that The Universe is offering you.  Yes, it is nice to receive these confirmations from others, but you must also be able to give them to yourself. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2017/01/14/ready-4/

Dear Ones, if you have had trouble with healthy boundaries in the past and are wishing to learn the art of speaking up for yourself, making a plan ahead of time can be very helpful. If you are wishing to move into healthier relationships with others who have not been respectful, it is likely that you are well aware of the pattern that you are in that you would like to shift out of. Planning ahead can be a wonderful first step.

Often when someone treats you in a way that you are not comfortable, it can make you feel small, frustrated, and disempowered. From that space it can be difficult to insist upon being treated in a more respectful fashion. This is why we strongly suggest making a plan ahead of time.

When you plan ahead, you are not caught off guard by someone's behaviour. Because you feel secure in new responses you can give, you can simply state your new truth or boundary from a calm and centred space. You will not be reactive, but rather, fully in your power. You will be anchoring the energy of respect, which will be recognized and honoured much faster because others will sense and respond to the energetic change.