If an emotion comes up into your awareness, the first thing to do is honour its presence. It is there to serve you in some way. Once you have acknowledged it, you can then start to explore it. Ask, “Is this mine?” You may be feeling energy from the collective, in which case you can simply observe it as release and send it on its way.

If it is yours ask, “Is it relevant to a certain situation?” Your feelings might be giving you additional feedback to something you are considering in your life. For example, if you are thinking about accepting a certain job and your entire being is responding with anxiety, your body is letting you know it is not a good energetic match to you. Thank your body for the warning and consider how to proceed in a way that fits well with you energetically.

Another helpful question to ask when an emotion comes up is, “Is this pertinent to this lifetime?” Many old wounds, beliefs, and conditioning are coming up for release. This question will allow you to recognize if it is old stuff on its way out, in which case you can be thankful to see you are continuing beautifully on your enlightenment process.

When you stop and think about how perfectly everything fits together on your Earth-plane, you will wonder why you ever chose to complain about anything. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2017/01/11/stop-think/

God said:

There are loved ones you care about who drive you up the wall, is this not so? If you didn’t care deeply and hold a vested interest, it’s possible they wouldn't drive you up the wall. You may see their repetitive behavior as self-destructive, and yet you have heard Me say to keep your hands off. You don’t know if you are capable of being silent.

Let Us say that your husband is a master procrastinator. To almost everything you may say or request, his refrain seems to be:

"Not now," or, "Later." And later is later and later.

It is as if your husband is a collector of undone deeds. You are not talking about his mowing the yard. He could be out of work, and you may be concerned about his getting off the couch and looking for work. You are so worried.

You understand what I mean when I say to let him be. You know that reminding him that time is wasting doesn't help either you or him. That's just it – nothing seems to help.

You are not someone who can just sit on your hands. You can’t possibly smile and pretend that everything is all right. Has your husband given up? Is he wasting his life? Is he possibly ill? You have worry on top of worry.

The fact, so far as you can see, is that his joy in life lies lounging on the couch, watching TV and letting life slide.

His reactions are hard for you to take. Somehow, you and your husband have become opponents.

Many human beings have an all or nothing attitude. They feel that if they can’t make the leap into a huge success, there is no point in trying. While you hear stories about the overnight success, or those who win the lottery or experience some other monumental change of circumstance, the reality is most people are not energetically aligned to make such major changes.

But this does not for one second mean that you cannot have the changes you dream about. Far from it! It simply means that you must change your approach and start to honour the process of unfoldment.

Unfoldment is the journey of positive change, one Now moment at a time. It is moving towards your goals in increments, and celebrating each step with your use of gratitude. It is a path of faith and focus and flow.

Dear Ones, your success wishes to unfold for you right now! Do you desire healing? Do one small thing today that will support your wellness. Do you desire more money? Find a monetary amount that you feel comfortable and confident in creating and start from there. Do you wish to experience more love in your life? Find a way to experience the feeling of love, even if it is fleeting, today.

We cannot stress how quickly small consistent changes add up to big successes because with each effort, no matter how small, you are starting to embody what is desired and taking tangible action to match your intentions, and that, Dear Ones, is being the change. ~Archangel Gabriel