We were recently asked by someone how they could be more loving toward their husband. They were not happy with how they were treating their partner, and wished to shift it.  This is a common experience within relationships and we wished to discuss this today.

You cannot force yourself to be more loving if you do not feel loving. You cannot find a space of flow from the energy of resistance. You must add in another element that you are not resistant to.  In the case of being more loving, we suggest you take your focus off love and put it on appreciation.

Simply focus on appreciating your partner.  Look for the things you are grateful for that they do or say. Consciously choose to observe them, with an eye toward their wonderful traits.  What are they good at? Think about all the ways their presence adds to your life.

If you do that, something magical will happen.  Your love will suddenly begin to flow because you will have moved yourself into a space of non-resistance to them. You simply cannot appreciate something and resist it at the same time.  Your appreciation will shift you into a heart space of love and acceptance, and from there you will connect with them in the loving way your soul has been wanting to do all along. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

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Take a moment and look at those around you.  Look into their eyes.  In that instant, you may be able to glimpse what path they are on, the battles they may be fighting, if they have begun their movement toward the light and if they truly like themselves.

This is not to place you in a position of judgement…it is an exercise in compassion.  When you can see and understand what your fellow human beings are going through, a connection is created, giving you a chance to see within yourself and what changes need to be made.  It also affords you the opportunity to see their innate beauty regardless of outward appearances.  You have an amazing life, with abilities, knowledge and wisdom you have barely explored…it is time to open that door and begin. ~ Creator

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Dear Ones, you are in an age where you are being exposed to a vast amount of information. We understand that at times this can be overwhelming, but this is accelerating your evolution.  With so many voices and opinions it is allowing you to try on a lot of ideas, deciding on what is a match to you and what to leave behind.

When we say “try on” we mean just that. Consider what is being presented. Does it match who you are and what you believe? How does it fit energetically with your body? Is it empowering? Does it aid your expansion and growth? Does it support your own unique path? Does it feel right?

Just as you would try on a garment in a store, if it doesn’t fit you can leave it behind without having any attachment to it being wrong. Further, you can be at peace with the idea that it might be a perfect match for someone else. You don’t have to push against it, you can just try on something else until you find what is comfortable and suits your needs. You understand that it is just a process of self expression.

These accelerated energies can seem overwhelming at times, but you are well prepared for all of this for it is supporting your advancement into the next phase of your incarnation. You get to decide what fits you and supports you and your unique expression of self.  Again, allow the noisiness to redirect you into the knowingness of your soul. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

Huge changes are on the horizon.  You may think of it as a tearing-down; what you once knew will fade (and for some of you, crash down) to make room for something much different.  It may not always be what you were expecting but, it will be what is in your highest and best.  The Universe would like you to use this time to manifest what you want in your life.  This is not ‘snap decision’ time, it is a slow burn thinking/feeling/being process that will require some extra attention.  Grieve if you feel you need to, release what need to let go of and know you are moving in a direction that will have beautiful results. ~ Creator

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Are you denying care for yourself?  Are you consistently too busy to give yourself what you need?  When you say no to yourself you are, in effect, transmitting a no to the universe.  You are holding yourself outside of the love and support that is available to you, both from yourself, and from other sources.  Remember, Dear Ones, you are always setting the energetic tone for what you will accept. We hope you will shift into receiving the many ways the universe can serve you, beginning within with your own loving care. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

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