One of the greatest things you can do for your relationships is to become self aware and self responsible. This means that you don’t depend on others for your happiness. It also means that you check in with yourself before you agree to do anything, and if you do agree to something you embrace it gracefully because you understand it was your choice.

If you take the time to do those two simple things, you will move beyond resentment. Since resentment creates anger, resistance, and separation between you and others, making choices that are in line with what you really wish to do helps you show up for others with an open heart from a place of love, safety, and connection, which can only support and heal your relationships. Further, being responsible for your own happiness and choices frees others from the pressure of trying to figure out how you really feel. Your self awareness and self responsibility opens the door for true communication, and for actions and responses to be based upon that truth.

The days of martyred service are over, Dear Ones. Making sure your efforts honour and empower everyone involved will pave the way for the new template of joyful service, which will serve everyone much better than ever before on your planet. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

http://trinityesoterics.com/2018/03/02/daily-message-friday-march-2-2018/

God said:

It could be said that We, you and I, the One of Us – isn’t it interesting how We navigate in language? – We speak, communicate, or We can say commune on a level deeper than language. In a sense, We can say that language of itself is “all talk.”

Deeper than language – the Source of Language -- We can perhaps call it pre-language. We can say that the Source of Language is Being, and Being is powerful in and of itself. The Power of Being may arise as a vibration, and so it can be said that vibration is the precursor of speech. Speech is a fill-in. Speech is written between the lines.

And here it is again…the quiet.  The void between one change and another.  As you wait in anticipation you can hear The Universe whispering quietly to you, “Be patient, darling, be patient.  Some of the best things in your human existence come after your waiting time”.  Instead of attempting to fill the quiet with busy things, things of no consequence…fill it with thoughts of what you desire in your life.  This is prime manifesting time; use it to your best advantage. (Smiling) ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2018/03/02/manifesting-time/

You have had a lot of energetic activity as you have stepped into the new year of 2018. There has been much shifting of energy, much integrating, and much change. It is common for it to take a while to get used to the energy of a new year, particularly one that is as markedly different as 2018 is compared to 2017.

We estimate it will take until the spring equinox for you to truly have a good feel for the unique energetic stamp of the energies of 2018 and how best to work with them. The equinox will help you anchor the energies more fully into a space of balance, and from there you will find it much easier to move into the full potential of what this year has to offer you, both individually and collectively.

To be clear, you will always be growing and evolving. You will go through times that support surges of obvious growth, and others that focus more on integration and energetic fine tuning, matching the natural flows and ebbs of the universe. 2018 is a year of flow, of big leaps and discoveries, and pioneering new, more empowered ways of doing things. Know that you are being supported in learning the best ways to use these energies.

Trust that your own inner wisdom knows how to lead the way, as well, if you allow it. You continue to surprise and delight us with your incredible tenacity and capability as we cheer you on in the creation of the new times on your planet. ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

God said:

Nothing is forgotten. Everything that once was still is. Listen carefully. Your beloveds who have returned Home are still your beloveds, as you are theirs. No longer is the love you share so individualized, personal. When the breath of your loved ones no longer goes in and out, you realize this clearly. Death and life are talked about plenty, yet there exists only the vitality of Life, no matter what dimension you, the observer, may be in. Life still is in place.

From human perception, it may be that what once was vital is now said and done and over with Yes, of course, you can’t keep hanging on so tight to your loved ones who, as it is said, are departed.

From a certain reciprocity, however, it is possible to dance around the maypole as you used to. Even in terms of the past, nothing is lost. Only on the surface of Life is anything somewhere else.

If there is Infinity, there is also Eternity, and in certain frequencies, you can turn the dial.

Hang onto your hats, here comes another piece of the beautiful puzzle of the shift you have been experiencing!  For some of you, the past few days have been an emotional roller-coaster with enough ups and downs to last you the remainder of your year.  However, the incoming wave of Unconditional Love will begin to smooth things out and make these changes easier to handle.  And, of course, your frame of mind will also play a big part in it.  Stay cool, stay calm and definitely stay collected.  Joy is coming! ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2018/03/01/joy-is-coming/