In older energies you were taught to be on high alert for what was unwanted. This resulted in the automatic judgment of others, which created perpetual rejection and separation between you and others. This was very much a conditioned behaviour, passed down from relatives who were raised in much different times.

Dear Ones, we encourage you to become aware of that old habit and to, with your awareness, change your focus. Why not start to look for the positive aspects of the people you see? Why not look for things that are the same, that connect you, that you can celebrate in each other?

We urge you to retrain your mind to shift from judgment and separation to acceptance and inclusion. Starting to see and acknowledge others as being varied and wonderful individuated aspects of Source energy will allow you to practice acceptance and allowing, and to bring your automatic responses to be in line with the higher vibrating energies you are experiencing now on your planet.

It will allow you to anchor safety, understanding, compassion, and peace, and above all, unconditional love as the uniter of those you come in contact with. It will move you from resistance to acceptance, which will create a greater comfort for you to connect with others.

My dearest, darling one; here you are, faced with more acts of senseless violence against the innocent and peaceful.  I know your heart hurts and I know you may not understand the infinite picture but, one day very soon, you will.
I gave many of you an idea of what would be coming years ago.  The thinning of the veil has made it so some do not understand what they are feeling, hearing and seeing.  It frightens and pushes them to places they may not have otherwise gone.  This is where your work begins, my love.  Send as much love as you can!  You may be far away from where these acts occurred or are occurring, but they will still feel your love and purity of heart.  Find one moment of joy in your memories and send that as well.
It may seem as if the darkness is ‘winning’, but that is far from the truth.  It knows it is fighting a losing battle and is doing all it must to hold onto whatever power it has left.  Release your pain and anguish over these situations, send it to be transformed to Love and Light….to come back to you, to be sent out again and so forth.  Then the power of you, as an individual, will be felt and known throughout your world.  Join together and be the peace your Earth plane is needing in this moment. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2017/10/03/the-light-in-unimaginable-darkness/

God said:

Don’t feed the egos here on Earth. Don’t feed your own ego, and don’t feed others’ egos. This isn’t good for the planet.

Aha, yet what specifically do I mean when I say not to feed egos?

If someone is wearing a pretty dress, by all means tell the wearer of the pretty dress that she is lovely. Complimenting someone truthfully is not feeding anyone’s ego. You’re not feeding others’s egos, nor are you feeding your own. A genuine comment isn’t flattery. You don’t express a genuine comment in order to profit from it, perhaps to rise higher in your own estimation. Certainly, give others attention. Absolutely, put some Sunshine into others’ lives. Say something nice without getting carried away. Never is it to be your purpose to flatter someone.

When this same lady is wearing the same pretty dress, and you choose to compliment the lady in order to gain some kind of favor or advantage in Life, to possibly be using her in one way or another to boost your ego,, then refrain from giving her a compliment. Be true to Truth. Be True to your Self and not to aggrandizement. How much is aggrandizement worth anyhow?

There is a difference between giving someone some cheer, and your trying to win points.

Gratitude is a state of non-resistance. Since resistance is what causes discomfort, you can see that not only is gratitude a creational tool, and a way to give feedback to the universe, it is also a means of moving into greater comfort for yourself.

Why not try it? The next time you are feeling uncomfortable, take a moment to notice all the things that are working in your life and be grateful for them. You will instantly notice a shift in your energy into an energetic space where positive forward movement can occur, which will very quickly bring you the relief you seek. ~Archangel Gabriel

http://trinityesoterics.com/2017/10/02/daily-message-monday-october-2-2017/

There will come a time when what is said about you, who says it and how it is said will not matter anymore. This is called knowing the truth and being at peace with yourself. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2017/10/02/6682/