What you feel is best for you may not be best for those around you.  If you find yourself constantly forcing your opinions, thoughts and actions on others because ‘you know what’s best’, it may be time to rethink your stance.
You are each given free will and that is something that can never be taken away.  Allow the people who surround you the same respect you ask for, let them make their own mistakes, create their own experiences and collect their own memories.  Even though it may be challenging to sit by and watch, it will show a much greater amount of love and caring than anything else.  Guide……. support……. love unconditionally.  Controlling is for those who feel no control in their own lives.  Tend to your own garden and let others do the same. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2016/05/17/tend-your-own-garden/

Dear Ones, if you have something going on in your life that you would like to evolve beyond, you do not have to have the specific answer of how to do that in order to find the healing you seek. That is what the flow is for! Surrender into the flow of your highest good and you will be led to what you need. When wellness is your intention, the universe will always guide you to the perfect matches that will help you move into the experience of more of exactly that. ~Archangel Gabriel

http://trinityesoterics.com/2016/05/17/daily-message-tuesday-may-17-2016/

God said:

I hear your heart say:

"Beloved God of my heart, Love of my Life, You are my entrance to Heaven from which there is no exit. I say this from the Truth of my Heart. I believe this, for You have said so. There are times I know this without a shadow of a doubt. Doubt is such a pesky mosquito.

Rather than focusing all of your love and attention in one direction, focus it in all directions. Something will appear that will surprise you! ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2016/05/16/love-focus/