Many human beings are still caught up in their need to “fix” another. This is brought on by an old model of love that says I know better than you. While it is presented as love and help, it can be very detrimental as the message behind it is, I don’t trust you to not mess things up. It disempowers others from connecting and finding their own innate capability and from having their own experiences without the fear of judgment.

When another gives advice, it is based on what would be best for them. No one but you knows your own unique path or the experiences you are wishing to have. While it is always good to consider other viewpoints, always do so from a place of deciding whether it matches your own truth. If it does, wonderful, proceed from there. If it does not, remember, you are the master of your own journey and no one is as qualified as you to lead yourself.

What if you make a mistake? Dear Ones, there is no such thing as mistakes, only experiences. If, you make a choice and the result is not in line with who you really are, you will choose differently next time. If you are connecting with your own divinity and listening to your innate knowingness, you will continue to expand and self define into your greatest expression of self, in ways that perfectly match you. Allow yourself to be the empowered and capable leader of your own life expression! You can thank others for caring but there is no substitute for following your own truth and what feels right for you. ~Archangel Gabriel

You are My diamond, My star, My ruby colored grain of sand in an infinite sea of beige. You are My most precious Love because of who you are. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2016/05/13/my/

God said:

Your intention, desire, and resolve are trail blazers. Intention, desire, resolve, commitment, and yearning fuel the rocket that engenders your evolution.

I have no axe to grind with money. I have no axe to grind with search and desire for money, yet money appears more as a result of creativity and energy than a desire unto itself. Desire for money may start the pump, yet there is another kind of fire as well that heats up your desires well to reach you.   

You may well taste the arrival of money on your tongue. It feels so real you could be holding it in your mouth. You may have a fervor about great sums of money that will deliver to you the great freedom that money can buy. Your ultimate desire is great freedom, and the innocent freedom of plentifulness.  

Every desire has its own vibration. This means that every desire cultures its own qualities within you. At the same time, all desires also culture something of an equal frequency. Desires tweak your heart. Within every frequency of desire, some of the desire is pretty much the same.

You will know this according to how you feel.

You may be fervent about revenge, let's say, yet you already know without having to give a moment's thought to it that thoughts of revenge or vindication carry a far different vibration than thoughts of good for all. Desire for another's comeuppance is not good will. Beloveds, the desires that you will thrive on – and that the world thrives on – support and uplift everyone.

Dear Ones, if you have made what you consider to be a mistake, be easy on yourselves. You had an experience. You are in the body to experiment, to try things, to grow, and to discover your preferences. There is no need to berate yourself over it endlessly. But we also suggest that you don’t gloss over it either. Every experience you have has a gift for you in it. If you discover the gold of clarity in the sludge of your regret, it will allow you to further self define and try anew in ways that far better represent who you really are, and what your true intentions are. If you do that, there would be no reason to go through the experience again. ~Archangel Gabriel

http://trinityesoterics.com/2016/05/12/daily-message-thursday-may-12-2016/