Reality is your divine destiny because there is nothing else.   What you experience as humans alive on Earth is very convincing but, nevertheless, is quite unreal.   Much of your pain and suffering is because separation from Source is not what you desire, it is out of alignment with your true nature which is always in Relationship with God and Self in perfect harmony, intertwined, integrated, and at One.  To be disconnected, were it possible, which it is not, would be to cease to exist, and that thought is terrifying!

Consequently you are always seeking connection and integration with what cannot be joined, namely, form. You can get close, but you cannot join because form by its very nature is divisive.  What you most desperately desire is unavailable in form, but you continue to seek it there because there seems to be no other option, since you chose to experience separation as realistically as possible by constructing an illusion in which You immersed Yourself and in which your knowledge of Reality was almost completely lost and forgotten.

God said:

You are the arbiter of your own happiness or unhappiness. You may not yet be at that place within where you can allow yourself to be happy under many situations. You just are not. You may have never been. You may have always been bruited around by the winds that blow.

You may not believe you will ever be in a great place of equanimity. Yet, will you admit to yourself, that you can be closer to the ideal, and, that by getting closer, you will bless yourself, your family, and the whole world?

Tell Me, dear ones, what can be worse than carrying deadweight along with you into the hereafter?

Start with just a few instances. If someone disappoints you, you don't have to be crestfallen. You don't have to be upset. You don't have to disown the person. You don't have to anything.

If someone doesn't like the way you dress, is that your problem? If someone doesn't like you or doesn't seem to like you, why make that a federal case? You don't have to carry someone on your back, nor do you have to turn your back on anyone either.

To love one another doesn't mean you have to be everyone's great pal. Follow your happiness. Drop off unhappiness. Let go of it. What do you want it for?

If you had noxious materials in your house, you would get them out of your house. You would get them out right away. Now, get rid of what has been obnoxious to you in your mind. You don't need it, so why keep it?

My love, it is time to change.  Yes, I can hear/see your eye rolling, sighs and quiet exclamations of “Again?”  Please remember, you were born at your specific time to assist!  It does not have to be a huge earth shattering move. It can be soft and gentle, starting with one thought at a time.  Triggers will come and go and it us up to you to choose to react or not. Stay in the moment and know your vibration will always suit and fit the experience.  ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2016/08/14/the-moment/

Unconditional love and acceptance create an environment of safety that allows others to drop their guard, to open up and simply be themselves. It offers the encouragement to embrace their authenticity, which leads to transparency and truth. How would your relationships shift if you created that safe zone for others? How would you shift if you shared your unconditional love, acceptance, and encouragement with yourself? ~Archangel Gabriel

http://trinityesoterics.com/2016/08/14/daily-message-sunday-august-14-2016/