RELATIONSHIPS   Think of the base of a building in which there are four pillars. If one pillar collapses, the building will fall. The four basic pillars of relationships are love, kindness, empathy and trust. Each of these encompasses a broad range of emotions and possible experiences. Love ranges from absolute hatred or fear to unconditional love. The parameters of kindness range from co-dependency to allowing others to follow their dreams. Empathy ranges from being completely ignorant of another’s emotional state to a feeling that you must persuade others to embrace your beliefs. Trust ranges from total wariness to seeing another as a great Master.

Some foundations will remain at a superficial level. These are generally relationships with people you’ve just met or run into occasionally such as the grocery store clerk, post office personnel and people you meet on the street or at social gatherings. Your relationships with these people are dependent on your life experiences and belief codes.

We understand the past couple of months of your linear time have been challenging for many of you. During such times when the energies are churning things up, it can be difficult to keep your focus. It is easy to get distracted by energies coming up for release, either by you or by others.

Let us reassure you that you do not need 100% compliance with your focus to be successful! Pressuring yourselves during times of pressure really does not accomplish anything other than making you feel more discomfort. Simply surrender back into your true intention if you find yourself getting uncomfortable. Surrender anything that is less than your highest intention, as well, if you become aware of it. Surrender and acceptance are always the antidote to discomfort, Dear Ones.

We love you for your diligence, your commitment and your courage. Remember this does not need to be an unduly difficult process. Trust that the system is helping you continue to evolve into your highest light and truth. Move with the flow, knowing you are loved and assisted through it all, and you will be much more comfortable before you know it. You are all doing a magnificent job. ~Archangel Gabriel

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God said:

To thine own self be true really means: To thine own SELF be true.

Now, this that I say next is delicate. To Thine own Self be true means not to follow your wee tiny little trumped-up ego! I am your Self. Follow Me.

Attachment is ego. Your first opinion is often based on ego. Your ego is sure he is right. Ego always thinks he knows better than anyone else. Ego thinks he knows better than I do. Ego has a high opinion of himself. Ego has many ways of dodging what I say, and ego does a good job of thwarting what is in your best interest. In every case, it is in your best interest to dodge ego and listen to Me.

Of course, I speak of ego as if he were a third party to you, yet ego thrives and is alive and well within you. Ego is not responsible for your antics. You are responsible for ego’s antics. Ego gains ground only with your participation, and, I must say, most often with your wholehearted participation. Ego may rub his grimy hands in delight while you look at him with approval. Whenever you want to get the better of someone, this is ego urging you on. Otherwise, you would be honoring another soul on Earth more than you may presently.

How necessary it is that you stay away from ego. Do not go where angels fear to tread.

When you begin to doubt yourself and your decisions, remember this; you are a miraculous creation of The Universe born with every single tool you need to make a difference for yourself and your world. ~ Creator

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