God said:

Remind yourself of your facility for independence. You don't always require the help you think you do. You may really be looking for proof of love. Such neediness is not in your best interest. Helplessness can only lead to frustration.

Sometimes giving over-abundant help may be your need to be needed, therefore, your immense neediness to stand out as well-thought of by the world, to be extra-special in the world. A great giver can be a great needer of admiration and praise.

Either way, you don't want to take advantage of anyone by too much taking nor do you want to take advantage of someone by too much giving. Nor do you want to be unable to accept help from so-called others either.

Now that you realize strength can also be contrary to what you have thought, now also forget about it. You don't try to measure every step you take, for measuring and analyzing are not living life. Once you have an insight, the insight is the seed planted, and it will grow. You will grow.

Life is not to be a method, not a plan, not a map you follow, but spontaneous. Don't second-guess yourself. You will learn as you go along. If you discover you went west instead of east, that you said no instead of yes, or vice-versa, whatever you regret, let it be.

Others will say and do hurtful things.  Some of it may be directed toward you.  That is the way some humans operate…. they do not know any better.  You have heard this before, however, it is worth hearing again, “What others say about you is none of your business.’  Until they realize that, with their hurtful words, they are only hurting themselves, until they realize that lying to others is only lying to themselves, nothing will change.  Let them exist in their world, in time they will understand the implications of their actions.  Until then kindly, compassionately and with deep empathy…. send them love.  Because, in the end, love is all they truly need. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2017/01/22/the-realization/

God said:

If you could see the Bright Light of Your Heart without all the trumped-up charges you and others have made against it, how happy you would be. Remove all the propaganda, and you would no longer refute your Heart or anyone else's heart. You would see the Light of My Heart wherever your eyes alit. No matter whose heart you looked into, without exception, you would be surrounded by Great Light far beyond your present reckoning.

This is not a wild-goose chase I send you on. This not an exaggeration. This is fantastic, yet not any kind of fantasy. This is not fiction meant to cheer you on. This is the God-given Truth, and it is for you to know the Radiance you are made of and that you are to spread around the world like mist.

How you see presently is a fictionalized story. It is an overdone fear-filled story that is so suspenseful you cannot put it down. You might call your story: What Happens Next? Or, The Way You See It, or, you could call your story: Footsteps in the Dark, or, you could call it: Dark Clouds and Ominous Shadows, or Lost at Sea, or even Pursued by Fear of One Kind or Another…

How you see presently is the wild-goose chase. Too often how you see presently is contrary to your dreams, yet it is a dream you have with your eyes open while you are in the waking state. Of course, the true name of this waking state could be The Unawakened State.

What new title might you give to life if you weren't so frightened of it?

How about:

Dear Ones, we urge you to stop and take a look at your life with fresh eyes today. It is easy to, by habit, fall into a sense of complacency and to continue things that don't necessarily match who you have evolved into. What do you accept in your life that isn't in line with who you really are? What could be changed or improved that you have stopped noticing because that's how it has been for a long time? What shifts could you make that would create more flow and ease?

Again we remind you, change doesn't need to be grandiose. Little adjustments allow your actions to match your intentions, and can create a completely different, more supportive energy flow. Cleaning up all the little leftovers of your less empowered past allows you to become more congruent, and to emanate a far more pure energetic intent, which the universe can then respond to even more precisely. ~Archangel Gabriel

http://trinityesoterics.com/2017/01/21/daily-message-saturday-january-21-2017/