God said:
I, Who understand everything in the Universe, do not really understand how some of my children are hard-hearted to others, perhaps deliberately hard-hearted without regard for the feelings of others -- as if I have never spoken about generosity from your heart to your neighbors and brothers and sisters.
This is especially confusing to Me when the same people acknowledge My Presence in their lives. As preposterous as it seems, there are even Heavenreaders who sometimes lapse into pride so they have the power to bend the branches of their relationships. Knowing better than others and feeling your superiority is one way wars get started.
Certainly, I don't mean to suggest you are supposed to kowtow to others. What I am speaking of is when you may be making a choice that may not benefit anyone, least of all, yourself. Perhaps your life could move forward in a different and better direction. This is your call.
When you leave a relationship and you must castigate the person you break with, I say, if you must leave, leave in good grace. You don't have to rationalize your leaving. You don't have to be so sure that you have all the answers and are justified when you are unkind. It's not okay for you to judge and leave heartache in your wake.