As you turn your focus on healing, many of you become stuck waiting for closure. We understand you wish to wrap up a phase or experience, but holding on for closure to come from someone can be a faulty practice. We will explain why.

Your healing is a self guided process. Waiting for closure to come from another is placing your healing in the hands of someone else. It is giving your power away.

Worse, it is placing your healing in the hands of a person who has already hurt you and proven they haven’t been able to see you in your truth and worth. So, now your healing becomes dependant upon another person’s healing and growth and there is no guarantee when or if that person will achieve what is necessary to offer you the acknowledgment you seek.

If someone has hurt you to the point where you need closure it is highly unlikely they have the wisdom or vantage point to give you what you need for healing. It is not that they have some secret wellspring of love and awareness that they have been withholding from you, it is more likely that they simply do not have it to give at this time in their incarnation. Looking for healing from them would be much like looking to a hot stove for comfort after you have burned yourself.

So what do you do?  Please understand you need nothing outside of yourself to get the closure you are seeking. The most beautiful wrapping up of an old issue or wound comes through your own self love and the recognition that you deserve much better. It is assuming the role of your own loving parent, guide, and best friend.

Your awakening and learning process has always been filtered through your life experiences but, rough beginnings do not always mean challenging growth or outcome.  Your amazing, infinite mind has the ability to change whatever you choose to focus on and free will opens it up to all the possibilities outside those experiences.  Do you wish things to be as they have always been, or will you make a conscious effort to move toward your better tomorrow?

The Universe understands that your existence is yours and will always support you along the way.  Now, dear one, it is time to start creating! ~ Creator

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If you find you are wishing away your time or pushing through one unpleasant obligation to another, perhaps it is time to step back and reevaluate. Isn’t it time to create a life you want to savour? ~Archangel Gabriel through Shelley Young

Take a moment to ponder this;

The only fight, battle or war that exists within is of your own making.  Allow yourself to begin creating peace.  You may not know the way but, your soul does. ~ Creator

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With all the huge, sweeping changes going on, darling child, remember love!  The Universe knows that you have been diligent in your learning and growth and that it has been challenging on more than one occasion.  There is no need to be judgmental, harsh or angry when you release.  If those emotions are still present, there may be hidden things you need to work out before the process is complete.  When you get to a point where the cacophony has stopped, you are able to see things for what they are and have a deep understanding of it, that is when you are ready.  Be patient and loving to yourself…it may take some time but, it is truly worth it. ~ Creator

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