God said:

It is definitely not a good idea to spend your life feeling sorry for yourself. By the same token, it is not a good idea to spend your life pitying anyone either. Feeling pity isn't good for you to send out any more than pity is good for you to receive. Feeling pity isn't an achievement. It's more like a dismissal.

Of course, naturally, this isn't to say you are to be hardhearted. Being firm is not the same as being severe. You do not always have to be the good cop. There is plenty of merit in the world for directness. Do not mistake directness for unkindness. You are not meant to be a sob sister in life.

Beloveds, what you see as someone's lot in life may well not be the way the person sees his own life. You know, be careful about making any kind of pronouncements about your life or another's. What you say may ring a bell of finality. Do not settle someone's life, nor settle for the world's distinctions of your life as if what the world says is your template to go by. Don't take a blotch on the surface of your life or anyone's life as the summation of the Life Itself.

Outer appearances are not a model to go by. This is why it is said, when someone appears at your door, be gracious, for the seeming beggar could be a Sainted Being. Have you not dismissed people in your heart because of their outer appearance? Opportunity isn't something you want to miss.

The three most useful things you will ever do; watching, waiting and listening. All will be revealed. ~ Creator

https://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/2016/12/04/three-things-2/

It is true that sometimes difficult people will show up in your life to mirror to you what you need to work on. But they can also show up momentarily in your life to help you see how far you've come. How would you ever know how much you had grown if you never had a means to measure it by? As you continue to evolve you will always be getting opportunities to see how you can view and handle things differently based on your newest level of mastery.

From this viewpoint you will be able to see that everything serves you, even the challenging situations. As you continue on your enlightenment journey you will get better and better at handling those situations and they will become more sporadic. Do not put untoward pressure on yourself or make yourself wrong for having an experience. You are all growing and evolving in the speed and ways that are perfect for you. Rest assured you will eventually be able to see it all through the lens of love, for love is always the base you will return to. ~Archangel Gabriel

http://trinityesoterics.com/2016/12/04/daily-message-sunday-december-4-2016/

God said:

What do I most want of you? I do not think so much in terms of superlatives as you may. I don't think of excluding anything from you. I do want you to undo any shackles you may have enchained yourself with. Superlatives, of their very nature, can only confine you.

Yes, it is My Desire that you be unbound. This means that you are to be free. Free of what? Not so much free of but free to. To be free to soar. To be safe enough to dare to be free. To be free from clutching either the past or the future as if past and future were the extent of you. In any case, you are free to let go. You are free to be free. You are free of all that may have held you back – and held the world back from its Ascension.

Fear has gone out the window. Any fear that you previously held tight goes out the window and disappears from the skyscape. You abandon fear on behalf of every Being in the world. Fear is no longer an entity that is going to pounce out at you, nor will fear grab at anyone, near or far.

You have reconfigured your Self. Now you truly star in your life.

With fear gone, you are a stalwart human being. You are strong enough to be benevolent. You are connected to yourself and to Me. There is no more tugging at yourself. There is freeing yourself. There is yourself freed. Struggle does not exist. It cannot even be conceived of.

Away you go, right to your Selfhood with Me.