God said:

There is the idea in the world that everyone on Earth is to be possessed of certain qualities. In certain times and places in the world, there is a list of the good qualities you are to be made of. In other times in the world, there may be a list of different qualities you are to be made of and a different list of the qualities you are absolutely not to be made of.

I remind you that I made you as you are.

A lot depends upon how you view your situation. Of course, the world undoubtedly thinks it knows just how everything is supposed to be. When all is said and done, how much does the world really know?

Regardless of what qualities in time and space are seen as masculine or feminine, successful or unsuccessful, or wildly popular or unpopular, you are you, and you are meant to be you. You do not have to meet the world's changing standards. You do not have to be like everyone else or even like anyone else. You are meant to grow into the tree I made you to be, not as ordered to, but as you are.

You are growing by leaps and bounds. You are My beloved. You are just right for Me. It is wise to follow your deep desires and not someone else's.

Many human beings are still caught up in their need to “fix” another. This is brought on by an old model of love that says I know better than you. While it is presented as love and help, it can be very detrimental as the message behind it is, I don’t trust you to not mess things up. It disempowers others from connecting and finding their own innate capability and from having their own experiences without the fear of judgment.

When another gives advice, it is based on what would be best for them. No one but you knows your own unique path or the experiences you are wishing to have. While it is always good to consider other viewpoints, always do so from a place of deciding whether it matches your own truth. If it does, wonderful, proceed from there. If it does not, remember, you are the master of your own journey and no one is as qualified as you to lead yourself.

What if you make a mistake? Dear Ones, there is no such thing as mistakes, only experiences. If, you make a choice and the result is not in line with who you really are, you will choose differently next time. If you are connecting with your own divinity and listening to your innate knowingness, you will continue to expand and self define into your greatest expression of self, in ways that perfectly match you. Allow yourself to be the empowered and capable leader of your own life expression! You can thank others for caring but there is no substitute for following your own truth and what feels right for you. ~Archangel Gabriel

You are My diamond, My star, My ruby colored grain of sand in an infinite sea of beige. You are My most precious Love because of who you are. ~ Creator

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